|Crispy skin salmon on rosemary infused potato cakes|
and topped with pistachio and parsley.
THE never ending tussle of who should do what - who should be responsible for this or that - what gets paid from whose wage.......these questions can easily cause deep tension and resentment in a home.
One of the most effective ways to grind a household to a immovable stop is to continually disagree over whose responsibility is it to do what, often followed by the other person riding the 'chosen' person with criticism and endless advice.
|Chickens are doing their thing at last. Eggs galore!|
So, what is the answer? - Simple:
Q1. Who should be in control of the money? A. The one who is the best at it.
Q2. Who should go and earn money outside the home? A. The one who can easily earn the most.
Q3. Who should do the washing? A. The person who enjoys it the most
Q4. Who should stay home with the kids? A. Whoever is not at work at the time.
Q5. How should the household chores be divided up? A. Each does the chores they enjoy and the rest get divided equally.....and no further discussion.
Q6. Should the person who earns the money control the money? A. No....see Q1.
Q7. What if Q1-Q6 are not done in exactly the way we would do them? A. Tough.
Everyone should be playing to their strengths and dividing up what's left.
|Just add fresh buns and fried chicken for a perfect self-serve lunch.|
Don't over think it.
Take care and stay nice folks.